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  • How many kids do you have? Which transition was the hardest? It may not be the traditional answer, but for me, becoming a mama to one was the hardest. I had NO CLUE what I was in for.
The mom guilt.
How long it would take to leave the house.
The sleepless nights.
Breastfeeding.
Losing myself in motherhood — feeling like I had to be with Blaire 24/7.
Adding Ben and now Sloane to our crew has been so much easier for me. It’s like they just fall in line with the crazy. 🤪 And I think being so much more confident in myself as a mom doesn’t hurt either. 💁🏼‍♀️ #motherhoodishard
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  • Obviously I’m biased, but this girl is just perfect. Not to jinx it, but she only cries when she’s hungry, I have to wake her up at night to feed her and she’s just so dang cuddly. 💕
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  • Life is a beach and Ben’s just playin’ in the sand. 🎶 I am really proud of how well Benny is doing as a big brother. He had a rough time leaving me in the hospital and being home without me, but other than that he’s been a champ! He is so gentle with Sloane. He says things like, “Her tiny toes are so cute!” “I like her little hands.” “Want some chocolate milk, Sloane?” Don’t worry: we don’t actually let her have chocolate milk. 🤪
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  • Took all three kids on an errand by myself today... and this is what it looked like. 🤪 Ben was in PJs all day and I didn’t put shoes on him to get Blaire from school. So he squeezed into some really dirty/too small shoes we found in the car. Blaire said her one boot hurt but the other didn’t... explains why she is wearing one of each. And Sloane slept. Even if they looked a little wild, they all behaved and that’s all that counts to this girl.
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  • Yesterday was my due date and today marks a whole week with Sloane. To celebrate, I shared her birth story on the blog before and now I’m going to take a nap. 💕🌈🤪 •
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  • @tristapeterson_ “today was the due date for our baby who we miscarried at Christmas. It’s a hard thing to mourn this day for our baby in heaven, knowing we will have our baby girl here with us in a few months. it makes me feel like I don’t appreciate this rainbow baby, but I do. obviously. being pregnant so quickly after our miscarriage has helped me to cope, but this day was still hard. my anxiety has been high these past few weeks. I’ve been trying to give myself grace, but as moms it can be so hard to make time for ourselves, to prioritize our own health. —
as I sat in the waiting room at my OBGYN yesterday I couldn’t help but think of all the times I’ve sat there, broken-hearted. during my fertility appointments while we were trying for our second baby. during all of the ultrasounds and appointments for my pregnancy in December. seeing people come out with their strips of ultrasound papers. laughing and smiling over their sweet baby. something I had done before without giving a second thought to the fact that other people in the exact same waiting room might be having one of the worst days of their life. I wondered if anyone there was having one of their worst days and prayed for everyone there. —
I’m not sure there’s really any point to this other than to say life is full of good and bad, ups and downs. if you are going through a bad time now, just know you’re not alone. this bad time will pass.
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people don’t always share their bad, so can’t we all just treat others the way we want to be treated? be kind. be the reason someone smiles instead of being another reason they frown. •”
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  • 39 weeks tomorrow and I guess Ben is the only one who took it easy on his mama and came during week 38. The girls are apparently stubborn and are not leaving without medical intervention. 🤣😭😭😭 I have my 39 week appointment tomorrow and we will talk through options for being induced and, we’ll, I’m hoping it’s an option to go straight from the doctors office to the hospital because this mama is more than ready to meet the final member of our family.
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August 6, 2019

why I believe my family needs life insurance

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When I left my full-time job to stay home with Blaire and Ben, I had been working in life insurance for three years. Up until I started there, I knew nothing about life insurance. I knew I had a life insurance policy through my employer and I just hoped it was something I would not have to spend any more time thinking about. As I dove deeper into the different types of life insurance, my eyes were opened to the peace of mind life insurance can bring to a family.

Disclaimer: I was not an insurance agent. I worked on the web team. I had to take some “basic education” type classes when I was hired. This is just my personal experience with life insurance and why I think it’s so important for my family.

Many people think of life insurance as something that pays for your funeral, but it’s so much more than that! Life insurance can help your family supplement lost income. The income that would have been spent on daily living expenses, college tuition, retirement, etc. All of the things your income would have been providing for your spouse and children.

Some things I didn’t know about life insurance:
  • Most people expect life insurance to cost 3x what it actually does.
  • The younger you purchase life insurance, the better, as life insurance prices tend to rise as you age.
  • There are different types of life insurance policies, some may even grow in value over time.

I’ve rounded up some of the other things I have never thought about before when it came to life insurance. I hope this information helps you to feel more comfortable reaching out to Nationwide to receive more information on the various types of life insurance available for your family.

I’m a stay at home mom… do I really need life insurance?

The daily work of a SAHM is more than you might think. In 2018, Salary.com set the median annual salary of a mother at $162,581. Of course you don’t actually see that in your bank account each year, but should your spouse need to pay someone to handle what you do each day, that’s what they’d need. Your spouse would need to cover child care, housework, etc. Life insurance would help to cover those expenses. So while you may not have an “income” to replace, you certainly have a value to the work you do every day.

I have life insurance through my employer… isn’t that enough?

Employer policies typically only cover one or two times your annual salary. For most people, that isn’t enough to cover their needs. And when you leave jobs, your policy won’t move with you. Investing in the proper amount of coverage at a younger age can help to make sure you get the best rates possible, even if you end up changing jobs in the future.

When do I need to reevaluate my life insurance?

Whenever we have a life event/milestone, we contact our insurance agent. After the birth of each child, when we have bought a new house, etc. Talking with a professional, we are able to gauge what our new and future life expenses will be for our new situation. Then we can adjust our coverage.

Do kids really need life insurance?

Remember when I said life insurance rates typically rise as you get older? Typically, the better your health, the better your rate. Some health conditions may make it difficult to get life insurance coverage as you get older. Buying life insurance for your children may mean they can add additional coverage (at a low rate) when they’re older. There are different types of life insurance, including policies that build cash value over time. Talking to a life insurance professional allows you to learn what type(s) of policy would be most beneficial for each member of your family.

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Nationwide can help you protect the people you love. Life insurance may seem complicated, but Nationwide is there to work with you one-on-one to answer your questions. They will analyze your needs and can help you select an insurance policy that is best for you and your family.

Working with the right company can help you to feel less nervous and panicked about the sensitive topics being discussed. Talking about life insurance certainly isn’t exciting or happy, but it makes us feel comfortable knowing our family will be protected on what would be the worst day of our lives.

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