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  • these first few smiles are literally the best thing ever. when you realize how happy you make a tiny person. when you see their face light up because they love you so much. then you fast forward 2.5 years and they’re demanding brownies and cheetos for lunch. 😬😬😬 #sixweeksold #happilytrista
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  • 6 weeks of this angel girl ✨
She is still waking up once over night most nights. She just started smiling at us these past few days. She loves tummy time but rolls herself over all of the time so we have to roll her back. She loves to be worn and snuggled. And we have to restrain her brother from kissing her 193739 times per day. 🤪 #happilytrista #newborn #sixweeksold #fourthtrimester
  • We are currently paying the price for last week’s easy bedtimes. I’m trying to get Ben to sleep in his own room. So you can guess how happy he is about that. His yelling has Blaire awake still, she’s been out of her room about 25 times. And Sloane is passed out on the couch. At least someone is asleep. They’re lucky they’re adorable because holy moly I’m tired and just want to veg out on the couch. #gotheftosleep #blairebenandsloane #happilytrista
  • Yesterday was almost 60° and today it “feels like” 21°. We had a handful of fall days and it’s not fair because I’m not ready to skip right to winter. There’s nothing better to get us all out of the house than a walk, especially because wearing Sloane puts her right to sleep. Anywho, trying to squeeze in a nap before we get Blaire from school because once we get home it’ll be a mad dash for me to shower and get everyone ready for Blaire’s first kindergarten parent/teacher conference. AND it’s book fair at her school. Who still gets excited for the book fair? 🤭🙋🏼‍♀️ #happilytrista
  • someone changed out of their pajamas today. it wasn’t me.
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  • daylight savings vibes... casually pouring coffee in my eyes today. what time were your kiddos awake? 
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  • Sorry if this made you yawn. 🤭 I just love that Sloane feels the sleep dust when I’m wearing her, just like Benny did! 💕 Hope you’re having a weekend as great as this girl. She is one month old today! Still waking just at 1:30am most nights to eat... occasionally around 5am, too. When she’s awake she likes to look at lights and stare at mama. Whenever she does tummy time she rolls right over to her back. 🥰 #happilytrista
  • Tried some Pinterest-y nail art while the two older kids were at school this morning... and I’m ready to remove and do something a little less crazy when they’re all in bed tonight. 🤪 Real wild Friday night plans, am I right?
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  • Sloane’s first Halloween... the one where it snowed 3 inches and was 20° outside. Woody and Jessie lasted about 30 mins trick-or-treating, then they wanted to head home to hand out candy. What was the weather like where you live? And how many pieces of candy do people give out where you trick-or-treat? Here, it’s a tie between “choose two pieces” and “grab a handful.” #blairebenandsloane #halloween #halloween2019 #happilytrista
June 10, 2019

pregnancy update: 22 weeks

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Holy moly! We are over half way to meeting this baby and I am so excited! Ben was born at 38W3D, so that is only 16ish weeks from now.

How far along: 22 weeks

Total weight gain: 2lbs… I guess you don’t need to gain much right away when you’re still holding onto 10lbs from each of your previous babies…

Movement: All the time! I LOVE it! Just this last week it has gone from feeling just the movements to actually feeling sharp jabs and kicks. Jason and Blaire were even able to feel!

Mood: Emotional! Blaire had her last day of preschool a few weeks ago so I was a mess.

Food cravings: Candy!

Gender:  It’s a GIRL! I can’t really believe it since both the Sneak Peak test and the 15 week ultrasound told us it was a boy. But fast forward to our 20 week ultrasound and two technicians swear they were 100% sure this baby is a girl.

Sleep: So every night I say I need to wash the cover on my maternity pillow and I haven’t yet, because, well, I haven’t really been doing much laundry. Lol! I know I would probably sleep better with it. But honestly my sleep isn’t THAT terrible. It’s funny how well you can sleep when you have two kids and are always exhausted! ha

Highlight of the Week: Seeing Ms. (or gosh, Mr. still maybe?) in the 20 week ultrasound a few weeks ago. And these movements are my highlights for the past few weeks.

Miss Anything: My sinuses have been horrible (I blame the weather) and I just miss being able to take medicine to help.

Symptoms: Some pain in the tops of my legs (my veins, I think?) and round ligament pain that occasionally stops me in my tracks. Thankfully it only happens once a day, sometimes even less. Some swelling in my hands and feet, which is normal for me during the summer since I am TERRIBLE at drinking water.

Looking forward to: Well I had already gone through Ben’s size newborn and 3 month clothing to figure out what we need… so now I guess I’m looking forward to digging out Blaire’s, too!

Okay, so sharing more about our whole “We thought we were having a boy and now we think we’re having a girl” scenario:

YES, we were SO shocked when she wrote the word GIRL up on the screen. We just spent that last 5 weeks talking to this baby boy, thinking of names, etc. I was so shocked I didn’t really say anything. Jason said we were told it was a boy. The ultrasound was instantly confused. So I tried to clarify that we had the blood test, but not the Panorama through the doctor’s office, just the Sneak Peak finger poke one at home, so yes, we knew it could be a “false” Male positive, which is why I went to Chicago for an independent ultrasound later that same week (I was 15W3D) and there they “confirmed” it was a boy.

Blaire danced around and was so excited to tell her friends that now she gets to be a big sister to both her little baby and a baby sister!

At my OBGYN’s office they had a second ultrasound tech come in and do a scan. She agreed she was 100% sure this baby is a girl. Their explanation for the wrong gender determination at 15 weeks was that it’s not always possible to tell correctly that early. Both males and females have a “nub” that develops into their male or female parts and that typically happens by 15 weeks. If the nub is still there, that can make your little lady appear to be a male, as can a well-placed umbilical cord. That 15 week ultrasound was a good 10-15 mins long. And yes, to me, when she said it was a boy I thought it also looked like a boy. There was no doubt in my mind that she was right. But, at our 20 week ultrasound there were three distinct lines. Found by two separate ultrasound techs.

I completely understand that some people may be mad (or upset, confused, etc.) but we are just so happy to be having another baby. We have one of each so we already have clothes, shoes, etc. for both. I hadn’t bought much for baby boy yet because we were so set on newborn-sized everything. Everything in the ultrasound looked perfect, our baby is healthy and we are just over the moon. It was definitely funny to make the phone call to our parents and siblings because they were all so in shock on the other end of the phone! lol! Whoever this sweet baby is, they are so, so loved.

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    • How many kids do you have? Which transition was the hardest? It may not be the traditional answer, but for me, becoming a mama to one was the hardest. I had NO CLUE what I was in for.
The mom guilt.
How long it would take to leave the house.
The sleepless nights.
Breastfeeding.
Losing myself in motherhood — feeling like I had to be with Blaire 24/7.
Adding Ben and now Sloane to our crew has been so much easier for me. It’s like they just fall in line with the crazy. 🤪 And I think being so much more confident in myself as a mom doesn’t hurt either. 💁🏼‍♀️ #motherhoodishard
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    • Prepping for our third baby has been pretty easy so far. I guess when you have an older sister and brother, plus a mama who likes to hold on to everything from her babies, there isn’t a ton of shopping to do. The kids are having fun picking out little gifts to give baby sister in the hospital (something Blaire still talks about from when Ben was born), little toys here and there, PJs, and this @babyeinstein 4-in-1 Kickin Tunes Music & Language Discovery Gym at @target. I wasn’t joking when I said they wanted to test it out! #babyeinstein #ignitecuriosity #socialspotters #blaireandben #happilytrista
    • #ad I can’t believe this girl is heading off to kindergarten! With afternoon pre-k last year, we were lucky to not have to worry about the morning rush. So this year, our go-to is a waffle and a chocolate milk for the ride to school. Horizon® Shelf Stable Chocolate Milk is our favorite since we can easily grab it and go! Spoiler alert: she takes one in her lunch, too. Blaire is so excited, but little brother and I are sad to see her spend so much time away from us. But I am excited to be able to walk her to school and avoid the CRAZY drop-off and pick-up lines while the weather’s still nice, anyways. 
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    • Well we don’t have a Nordstrom near us, but we do have an Aldi. Most of their summer items are on clearance and we scored this sweet pool for $7. Winner, winner. 🦄☀️ #blaireandben
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    • This summer hasn’t really felt like summer yet. 🤨 So when we have an 85° day we make the most out of it with a trip to the pool! How’d you spend your Sunday Funday? #blaireandben
    • another day, another doctors appointment for someone in our crew. today it’s Ben. he was up overnight saying his ear hurt — a double ear infection for him. luckily the kid loves taking medicine and hasn’t let his ears get him down! as long as he’s up moving around they’re fine, but the second he lays down... 😭😭😭. hoping our poor buddy is feeling better tomorrow. do you feel like you need a frequent flier card for your pediatrician? just me? okay. #blaireandben #itsfinewerefine
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    • It is definitely bittersweet to leave the house where we brought both of these babies home. But we are excited for our next chapter as a family of five! #rainbowbaby #blaireandben
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    • Last night was our first night in the new house. 👏🏻 We still have lots of stuff to bring from the old house and then lots of cleaning over there before the final walk through and closing next Monday. Then we can focus on getting this house unpacked and organized. But first, I would like a nap. 😴 #blaireandben #happilytristahome
    • The snow that never ends. 🙄🥶 Walked out into the snow this afternoon and one kid loved it, the other not so much. “Wowwww! It’s like a wizard out here.” —Blaire 😂
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