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  • How many kids do you have? Which transition was the hardest? It may not be the traditional answer, but for me, becoming a mama to one was the hardest. I had NO CLUE what I was in for.
The mom guilt.
How long it would take to leave the house.
The sleepless nights.
Breastfeeding.
Losing myself in motherhood — feeling like I had to be with Blaire 24/7.
Adding Ben and now Sloane to our crew has been so much easier for me. It’s like they just fall in line with the crazy. 🤪 And I think being so much more confident in myself as a mom doesn’t hurt either. 💁🏼‍♀️ #motherhoodishard
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  • Obviously I’m biased, but this girl is just perfect. Not to jinx it, but she only cries when she’s hungry, I have to wake her up at night to feed her and she’s just so dang cuddly. 💕
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  • Life is a beach and Ben’s just playin’ in the sand. 🎶 I am really proud of how well Benny is doing as a big brother. He had a rough time leaving me in the hospital and being home without me, but other than that he’s been a champ! He is so gentle with Sloane. He says things like, “Her tiny toes are so cute!” “I like her little hands.” “Want some chocolate milk, Sloane?” Don’t worry: we don’t actually let her have chocolate milk. 🤪
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  • Took all three kids on an errand by myself today... and this is what it looked like. 🤪 Ben was in PJs all day and I didn’t put shoes on him to get Blaire from school. So he squeezed into some really dirty/too small shoes we found in the car. Blaire said her one boot hurt but the other didn’t... explains why she is wearing one of each. And Sloane slept. Even if they looked a little wild, they all behaved and that’s all that counts to this girl.
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  • Yesterday was my due date and today marks a whole week with Sloane. To celebrate, I shared her birth story on the blog before and now I’m going to take a nap. 💕🌈🤪 •
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  • @tristapeterson_ “today was the due date for our baby who we miscarried at Christmas. It’s a hard thing to mourn this day for our baby in heaven, knowing we will have our baby girl here with us in a few months. it makes me feel like I don’t appreciate this rainbow baby, but I do. obviously. being pregnant so quickly after our miscarriage has helped me to cope, but this day was still hard. my anxiety has been high these past few weeks. I’ve been trying to give myself grace, but as moms it can be so hard to make time for ourselves, to prioritize our own health. —
as I sat in the waiting room at my OBGYN yesterday I couldn’t help but think of all the times I’ve sat there, broken-hearted. during my fertility appointments while we were trying for our second baby. during all of the ultrasounds and appointments for my pregnancy in December. seeing people come out with their strips of ultrasound papers. laughing and smiling over their sweet baby. something I had done before without giving a second thought to the fact that other people in the exact same waiting room might be having one of the worst days of their life. I wondered if anyone there was having one of their worst days and prayed for everyone there. —
I’m not sure there’s really any point to this other than to say life is full of good and bad, ups and downs. if you are going through a bad time now, just know you’re not alone. this bad time will pass.
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people don’t always share their bad, so can’t we all just treat others the way we want to be treated? be kind. be the reason someone smiles instead of being another reason they frown. •”
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  • 39 weeks tomorrow and I guess Ben is the only one who took it easy on his mama and came during week 38. The girls are apparently stubborn and are not leaving without medical intervention. 🤣😭😭😭 I have my 39 week appointment tomorrow and we will talk through options for being induced and, we’ll, I’m hoping it’s an option to go straight from the doctors office to the hospital because this mama is more than ready to meet the final member of our family.
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October 12, 2018

planning for fire safety as a family

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First Alert The Super Prepared Family

I know a lot of people don’t like to think about disasters and I don’t LIKE it either. But I do like knowing my entire family is prepared in the event of an emergency. To make talking to your family less intimidating and scary, First Alert is sharing The Super Prepared Family to help families practice and learn about fire and carbon monoxide safety this Fire Prevention Month. 

Growing up, I remember learning about fire safety in school every year. I also remember coming home after, when my brother and I would reiterate to my parents what we learned. Staying low to the ground, feeling the door to see if it was safe to leave the room and then setting a place for the family to meet up once you were able to get out of your house. We would practice climbing from our bedroom windows, go through the exits from each room and meet up at our safe spot.

This year, we realized we hadn’t talked to Blaire about fire safety. We have talked about appliances and outlets being dangerous. But we hadn’t talked with her about what to do in the event of a fire. As a parent, it’s easy to think I would just be able to grab my kids and get out, that they wouldn’t even need to think about what to do. But that’s not the case. And at 4-years-old there’s a lot Blaire can do and understand.

Learning about fire safety as a family

Teaching a preschooler about fire safetyTeaching a preschooler about fire safety

Toddler playing with firetruck

1| 911
Teach your preschooler to call 911 in an emergency. Show them how to do it on your phone even when it’s locked. Talk through the scenarios in which they should call 911, and talk to them about how serious it is. 

Blaire is very aware of police cars, ambulances and fire trucks. I’ve mentioned before that we pray whenever we pass one on the street. We have taken her to “Touch A Truck” events and go out of our way to say hi to first responders if we see them at the store, gas station, etc.

There have been multiple times the fire truck has been in the Target parking lot when we are leaving the store. Both times they were helping someone unlock their car door. And both times we have waited near our car for them to finish and then I take Blaire over to say hi. They are always SO nice. They let her sit in the truck. They show their equipment. She, as best she can, understands what they do. She understands they are busy and their jobs and time are important. Reiterating this to your children will help them to take 911 seriously.

2| Smoke & Carbon Monoxide Detectors
Your toddler probably doesn’t even realize you have these in your home, let alone realize what they mean when they make noise. Walk through your home and show your child(ren) where they are. As a reminder, you should have one on every floor of your home, as well as in each bedroom. First Alert makes detectors that are both smoke and CO. The batteries are good for 10 years! Reiterate that the sounds these detectors make might sound scary, but they should never hide when they hear them. They should get you right away. 

3| Make an escape plan and PRACTICE it. 
You and your children should know two ways out of each space in your home. Talk about them, practice each escape route. Show them how to open windows and doors. Show them how to feel a door with the back of their hand. Explain to them that if it’s hot that means the fire is on the other side of the door. They should keep it closed and they should stay low to the ground. And when they get out of those house DO NOT go back in. Tell them the firemen will try their best to rescue pets. They DO NOT rescue the pets. We have stickers on our doors that indicate how many pets we have and what they are (2 cats, 1 dog). 

4. Have a meeting place.
Your children should know where to meet up with you in the case of a fire. Practice getting out. Practice meeting up. If you know and love your neighbors like we do, tell your child to run right to their house, to ring their door bell, to ask for their help. 

5| Practice and talk about fire safety regularly. 
If you only talk about it during fire safety week, it’s not as effective. You need to constantly remind your child about what to do. Keep practicing.

There are so many more tips for fire safety and tips for talking through fire safety with your children. First Alert put together a great kit with The Super Prepared family. Blaire loves the activity pages and they helped her be less scared when talking about fire safety. 

First Alert The Super Prepared Family

Teaching a preschooler about fire safety

Teaching a preschooler about fire safety

Sure, some of these things seem basic. But over 100 million homes in the US are not protected with smoke alarms and 3 of every 5 home fire deaths resulted from fires in homes with 0 working some alarms. 

Also, 40% of homes do not have a single CO alarm. You cannot smell, see or hear CO. It is the NUMBER 1 cause of accidental deaths in the US. Every year there are 80,000 CO incidents. 

Get detectors for your home. Check their batteries every 6 months.

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of CLEVER and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

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