• traded in the root beer float for a sno cone tonight... jk might still have a root beer float once the kids are asleep. 🤪 what better way to celebrate the end of the golf tournament that lasted 3 days but aged me 33 years?! •
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  • today was the due date for our baby who we miscarried at Christmas. It’s a hard thing to mourn this day for our baby in heaven, knowing we will have our baby girl here with us in a few months. it makes me feel like I don’t appreciate this rainbow baby, but I do. obviously. being pregnant so quickly after our miscarriage has helped me to cope, but this day was still hard. my anxiety has been high these past few weeks. I’ve been trying to give myself grace, but as moms it can be so hard to make time for ourselves, to prioritize our own health. —
as I sat in the waiting room at my OBGYN yesterday I couldn’t help but think of all the times I’ve sat there, broken-hearted. during my fertility appointments while we were trying for our second baby. during all of the ultrasounds and appointments for my pregnancy in December. seeing people come out with their strips of ultrasound papers. laughing and smiling over their sweet baby. something I had done before without giving a second thought to the fact that other people in the exact same waiting room might be having one of the worst days of their life. I wondered if anyone there was having one of their worst days and prayed for everyone there. —
I’m not sure there’s really any point to this other than to say life is full of good and bad, ups and downs. if you are going through a bad time now, just know you’re not alone. this bad time will pass.
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people don’t always share their bad, so can’t we all just treat others the way we want to be treated? be kind. be the reason someone smiles instead of being another reason they frown. •
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  • our ultrasound this weekend confirmed our final little babe is, indeed, a baby girl. I think she looks just like her big brother. If she follows in his footsteps we will meet her in just 6 weeks! so now I’m slightly freaking out about all of the random things we need for her since I’ve basically done 0 prep. 😬 #thirdchildproblems •
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  • Enjoying one last long weekend road trip before Blaire starts school in a few weeks. I spent the day shopping and ended it with an XL root beer float 😂... the perfect day! We are heading to Omaha tomorrow where I just might have booked an ultrasound to check on this baby. 😬 I’m so excited!
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  • we have been to the pool every day this week! our house may have toys covering every surface and the laundry is piled up (both the clean AND dirty laundry). But both kids have gone right to sleep each night and I’ve ended the night with a root beer float, you know as my reward for being so cool and hanging at the pool all afternoon. 🤣
  • snack break #benjaminp | Less than 3 months and we’ll be adding another kiddo to our crew. I have been looking back through baby pictures and am just so dang excited to meet this new baby. I can’t wait to see if they look like either of their siblings... also can’t wait to find out if it’s really a she or a he! 🤪🤣
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  • Prepping for our third baby has been pretty easy so far. I guess when you have an older sister and brother, plus a mama who likes to hold on to everything from her babies, there isn’t a ton of shopping to do. The kids are having fun picking out little gifts to give baby sister in the hospital (something Blaire still talks about from when Ben was born), little toys here and there, PJs, and this @babyeinstein 4-in-1 Kickin Tunes Music & Language Discovery Gym at @target. I wasn’t joking when I said they wanted to test it out! #babyeinstein #ignitecuriosity #socialspotters
May 19, 2018

Xtreme Lashes at Revive at the Group

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Xtreme Lash Extensions

I have had my lash extensions for 4 weeks now and I’m still loving them! I had the full set put on 4 weeks ago and had my first fill today. I think they look really pretty and slightly dramatic, but still natural. And they actually held up really well for going four weeks between fills. I had been debating on doing lash extensions for some time because I had heard they can be damaging to your natural lashes. After lots of research and reading thread after thread of people asking this question, I found it really depends on the lashes and glue used, in addition to the experience of the person doing the extensions. 

I have been using The Group as my OBGYN since I found out I was pregnant with Blaire. I also did my infertility appointments there and they saw me throughout my pregnancy with Ben. So I am very familiar with them and was excited when they announced they were opening Revive at the Group in September of 2017. When I saw our family photographer, Ashley Hempel, had joined their team as an Esthetician, I was so happy for her! I liked their Facebook page and saw a post a few weeks later that she was doing eyelash extensions there. 

Revive uses Xtreme Lashes® and she has been for 11 years! Xtreme Lashes was founded in 2005. They are seen as the world’s most trusted name in semi-permanent eyelash extensions. As the first in their industry, they have really set the standards in eyelash extensions. For anyone who wants to know they aren’t damaging their natural lashes with this process, it’s so important to know your esthetician is using a trusted name. 

The lash extensions themselves are very natural-looking. They were developed to mimic your natural lashes with a tapered tip with a thicker base to resemble the look and feel of a natural lash. There are actually over 600 individual styles of Xtreme Lashes eyelash extensions! Isn’t that crazy?! It allows your stylist to give you a completely unique and tailored look. At my first appointment, Ashley started out by asking if I had any examples of how I wanted mine to look. We talked through my ideal length and then she got started.

Xtreme Lash Extensions
Xtreme Lash Extensions
Xtreme Lash Extensions
Xtreme Lash Extensions

While their website states it can take up to 3 hours for your initial “full set” to be done, Ashley had mine done in just under one hour, with sacrificing any attention to detail! My fill only took about 40 minutes, maybe closer to 30. And I love those kid-free minutes alone in such a relaxing environment. (Please note, even though you can take your child to OB appointments at The Group, in Iowa, children are legally not allowed in the esthetician rooms for their own safety.

I am still loving mine and my next appointment for a fill is in 3 weeks. I had a facial while we were in the Dominican Republic and she kept putting things over my eyes, even though I was trying to explain to keep liquids and oils off of my lashes. (She’s lucky it was so relaxing that I didn’t mind too much! Lol!) They definitely held up better without the additional wear from the facial. 

I love that they have simplified my beauty routine. The top photo, I’m only wearing lipgloss, foundation, and some eyebrow powder. It took me less than 5 minutes. No more eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow and curling my eyelashes.  

I love my Xtreme Lash Extensions SO much. 

Have you had lash extensions? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the Comments. xo

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    Carol Davis
    May 15, 2018 at 3:59 pm

    Well, I was noticing them the last few times I saw you and I thought how really neat your eyelashes are ! They look awesome and it never crossed my mind they were extensions or even glued on lashes ! Absolutely gorgeous !

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