• traded in the root beer float for a sno cone tonight... jk might still have a root beer float once the kids are asleep. 🤪 what better way to celebrate the end of the golf tournament that lasted 3 days but aged me 33 years?! •
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  • today was the due date for our baby who we miscarried at Christmas. It’s a hard thing to mourn this day for our baby in heaven, knowing we will have our baby girl here with us in a few months. it makes me feel like I don’t appreciate this rainbow baby, but I do. obviously. being pregnant so quickly after our miscarriage has helped me to cope, but this day was still hard. my anxiety has been high these past few weeks. I’ve been trying to give myself grace, but as moms it can be so hard to make time for ourselves, to prioritize our own health. —
as I sat in the waiting room at my OBGYN yesterday I couldn’t help but think of all the times I’ve sat there, broken-hearted. during my fertility appointments while we were trying for our second baby. during all of the ultrasounds and appointments for my pregnancy in December. seeing people come out with their strips of ultrasound papers. laughing and smiling over their sweet baby. something I had done before without giving a second thought to the fact that other people in the exact same waiting room might be having one of the worst days of their life. I wondered if anyone there was having one of their worst days and prayed for everyone there. —
I’m not sure there’s really any point to this other than to say life is full of good and bad, ups and downs. if you are going through a bad time now, just know you’re not alone. this bad time will pass.
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people don’t always share their bad, so can’t we all just treat others the way we want to be treated? be kind. be the reason someone smiles instead of being another reason they frown. •
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  • ice cream outside with two of my favorite people. when it’s only 70° outside you can actually eat your ice cream without it melting all over us... and by us I mean them. 👆🏻👆🏻 #blaireandben
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  • It makes such a difference to my mental health when I prioritize some “me time” in my schedule. Instead of rushing around cleaning up toys or folding laundry during nap/rest time, I’ve been sneaking outside to read a few chapters in my book and relax in the sunshine. The weather has been perfect these past few weeks! [#ad] These mini @kindsnacks nacks bars are the perfect size and they’re only 100 calories… which means I don’t have to feel guilty when I grab both a Caramel Almond Mini AND a Dark Chocolate Nuts & Sea Salt for my snack. 😜#KINDcollective #bekindtoyourself #backtoschool
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  • our ultrasound this weekend confirmed our final little babe is, indeed, a baby girl. I think she looks just like her big brother. If she follows in his footsteps we will meet her in just 6 weeks! so now I’m slightly freaking out about all of the random things we need for her since I’ve basically done 0 prep. 😬 #thirdchildproblems •
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  • Enjoying one last long weekend road trip before Blaire starts school in a few weeks. I spent the day shopping and ended it with an XL root beer float 😂... the perfect day! We are heading to Omaha tomorrow where I just might have booked an ultrasound to check on this baby. 😬 I’m so excited!
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  • we have been to the pool every day this week! our house may have toys covering every surface and the laundry is piled up (both the clean AND dirty laundry). But both kids have gone right to sleep each night and I’ve ended the night with a root beer float, you know as my reward for being so cool and hanging at the pool all afternoon. 🤣
  • snack break #benjaminp | Less than 3 months and we’ll be adding another kiddo to our crew. I have been looking back through baby pictures and am just so dang excited to meet this new baby. I can’t wait to see if they look like either of their siblings... also can’t wait to find out if it’s really a she or a he! 🤪🤣
  • YUM! The @starbucks pink drink, blended. So good! 💕
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  • My little daredevil. I can’t believe he’s going to be a big brother in just a few months! #benjaminp
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  • Prepping for our third baby has been pretty easy so far. I guess when you have an older sister and brother, plus a mama who likes to hold on to everything from her babies, there isn’t a ton of shopping to do. The kids are having fun picking out little gifts to give baby sister in the hospital (something Blaire still talks about from when Ben was born), little toys here and there, PJs, and this @babyeinstein 4-in-1 Kickin Tunes Music & Language Discovery Gym at @target. I wasn’t joking when I said they wanted to test it out! #babyeinstein #ignitecuriosity #socialspotters
May 10, 2017

Mother’s Day Questions

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I’ve seen these Mother’s Day questions floating around Facebook and since my answers would be super long, I figured it’d make a better blog post. And, since I haven’t shared Ben’s birth story yet (you can read Blaire’s here) some of this information, and some pictures are things I’ve never shared before!

Motherhood is seriously mind blowing. You spend your days googling things you never thought you’d type, stepping on tiny toys and stressing about things like whether your child should be drinking less juice and more milk.

1| Did you have an epidural? 
With Blaire I had a spinal, since it was a C Section. Only took about 20 tries to get it in though… not fun. With Ben, I had an epidural FO SHO. I was super nervous about it because 1| a needle 2| a needle in my spine 3| it took so many tries with the spinal. But it was actually relatively painless (compared to the contractions I was having) and she was able to get it in on the first try.

2| Was the father in the room? Of course! Jason wasn’t allowed in the operating room while they prepped me for surgery, but he was in there once the surgery started. With Ben it was just him and the nurse for the few hours I was pushing.

3| Were you induced? Nope.

4| Did you find out the sex? Yes! With Blaire we found out at 20 weeks. With Ben, we went to Chicago for an ultrasound at 15 weeks.

Blaire Newborn PictureBenjamin Robert Newborn5| Due Date? Blaire was due March 2 (our first wedding anniversary!) and Ben was due March 30. 

6| Did you deliver early or late? Blaire was a scheduled C Section at 39w 1d. Ben was born at 38w 5d.

7| Did you have morning sickness? Yes! I had it a few weeks longer with Ben than I did with Blaire. But with both of them I just felt sick ALL THE TIME. I rarely ever actually got sick.

8| What did you crave? candy, smoothies, strawberry lemonade (specifically theEvolution Cold-Pressed Strawberry Lemonade), cereal, tacos, pizza, fountain cherry pepsi… the list goes on and on and on.

9| How many pounds did you gain? Just under 20lbs with both of them.

Blaire and I

10| What was the sex of the baby? A girl and then a boy.

11| Did you have complications? Only the problem with the spinal block before my C Section. The closest to a complication would be Blaire being frank breech, which resulted in her having to be delivered via c section. 

12| How many hours were you in labor? No labor with Blaire. I was in “active labor” with Ben for about 9 hours before he was born. 

13| How much did your baby weigh? Blaire was 7lbs 2oz, 18.5″ and Ben was 7lbs 4oz and 20″… except he has 19.5″ at his doctors appointments so… I’ll assume they weren’t quite right when they were measuring him bright and early at 4AM. 

14| What did you name the baby? Blaire Elizabeth and Benjamin Robert.

15| How old is your baby today? Blaire is 3 and Ben is 7 weeks!

Blaire and Ben

Have you answered these questions in a blog post? Do you have posts with your little’s birth stories? Leave the link in a comment below! xo

  • Reply
    Carol Davis
    May 10, 2017 at 10:03 pm

    Loved this !

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    Virjinia
    May 12, 2017 at 6:19 pm

    I’ve not a mom but I just LOVE hearing about birth experiences! It’s always interesting to hear about moms who had two completely different experiences too. Both of your babies are so beautiful. Thanks for sharing!

    • Reply
      Trista
      May 19, 2017 at 4:32 pm

      Thank you so much! I love reading birth stories/experiences, too! It always amazes me how different everyone’s experiences are.

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    Melissa
    May 13, 2017 at 6:27 pm

    This is such a fun post. It’s great to have this as something to look back on!

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    Jacki
    May 15, 2017 at 7:44 pm

    Aw your babies are so cute! This is a fun post to remember the events!

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    xokerry
    May 15, 2017 at 11:40 pm

    So sweet! I saw a ton of these on Facebook and loved reading them. I haven’t done my daughter’s birth story yet but I should! Baby #2 is coming in October.

    • Reply
      Trista
      May 19, 2017 at 4:34 pm

      Yes! Definitely write her birth story. I love reading them!

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    The Ox Mama
    May 16, 2017 at 5:31 pm

    AHH! everyone’s newborn pictures with these questions are giving me baby fever!

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    sunshineandmunchkins
    May 16, 2017 at 10:01 pm

    I’ve loved reading everyone’s responses to these questions! You have some cute kiddos. :)

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  • This summer hasn’t really felt like summer yet. 🤨 So when we have an 85° day we make the most out of it with a trip to the pool! How’d you spend your Sunday Funday? #blaireandben
  • another day, another doctors appointment for someone in our crew. today it’s Ben. he was up overnight saying his ear hurt — a double ear infection for him. luckily the kid loves taking medicine and hasn’t let his ears get him down! as long as he’s up moving around they’re fine, but the second he lays down... 😭😭😭. hoping our poor buddy is feeling better tomorrow. do you feel like you need a frequent flier card for your pediatrician? just me? okay. #blaireandben #itsfinewerefine
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  • Last night was our first night in the new house. 👏🏻 We still have lots of stuff to bring from the old house and then lots of cleaning over there before the final walk through and closing next Monday. Then we can focus on getting this house unpacked and organized. But first, I would like a nap. 😴 #blaireandben #happilytristahome
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