• I’ll take 3 more of her.
  • these first few smiles are literally the best thing ever. when you realize how happy you make a tiny person. when you see their face light up because they love you so much. then you fast forward 2.5 years and they’re demanding brownies and cheetos for lunch. 😬😬😬 #sixweeksold #happilytrista
  • (sponsored) When you become a parent, there are so many new things to learn about and I feel like each person latches on to something they’re passionate about / can’t stop reading and learning about. For me? That’s car seats! Thankfully some states are finally updating their laws to conform to recommendations from the APA. We have tried quite a few different seats and this 3-in-1 Pria seat from @maxicosiusa is the nicest! The chest clip is magnetic, making it easy to clip and unclip with one hand. The straps stay in place thanks to their out-of-the-way spring assist, so no more twisted up straps. And the cushions are both washer AND dryer safe! Yay for no more hang-drying! On top of that, it’s rear-facing up to 40lbs, forward-facing up to 65lbs and then a booster up to 100lbs. #ParentYourWay #PriaMax3in1 #happilytrista
  • 6 weeks of this angel girl ✨
She is still waking up once over night most nights. She just started smiling at us these past few days. She loves tummy time but rolls herself over all of the time so we have to roll her back. She loves to be worn and snuggled. And we have to restrain her brother from kissing her 193739 times per day. 🤪 #happilytrista #newborn #sixweeksold #fourthtrimester
  • We are currently paying the price for last week’s easy bedtimes. I’m trying to get Ben to sleep in his own room. So you can guess how happy he is about that. His yelling has Blaire awake still, she’s been out of her room about 25 times. And Sloane is passed out on the couch. At least someone is asleep. They’re lucky they’re adorable because holy moly I’m tired and just want to veg out on the couch. #gotheftosleep #blairebenandsloane #happilytrista
  • Yesterday was almost 60° and today it “feels like” 21°. We had a handful of fall days and it’s not fair because I’m not ready to skip right to winter. There’s nothing better to get us all out of the house than a walk, especially because wearing Sloane puts her right to sleep. Anywho, trying to squeeze in a nap before we get Blaire from school because once we get home it’ll be a mad dash for me to shower and get everyone ready for Blaire’s first kindergarten parent/teacher conference. AND it’s book fair at her school. Who still gets excited for the book fair? 🤭🙋🏼‍♀️ #happilytrista
  • someone changed out of their pajamas today. it wasn’t me.
#happilytrista #rainbowbaby
  • daylight savings vibes... casually pouring coffee in my eyes today. what time were your kiddos awake? 
#dst #daylightsavingssucks #happilytrista #targetstyle
  • Sorry if this made you yawn. 🤭 I just love that Sloane feels the sleep dust when I’m wearing her, just like Benny did! 💕 Hope you’re having a weekend as great as this girl. She is one month old today! Still waking just at 1:30am most nights to eat... occasionally around 5am, too. When she’s awake she likes to look at lights and stare at mama. Whenever she does tummy time she rolls right over to her back. 🥰 #happilytrista
  • Tried some Pinterest-y nail art while the two older kids were at school this morning... and I’m ready to remove and do something a little less crazy when they’re all in bed tonight. 🤪 Real wild Friday night plans, am I right?
#nailsofinstagram #nailsoftheday #essie #manimonday #happilytrista
  • Sloane’s first Halloween... the one where it snowed 3 inches and was 20° outside. Woody and Jessie lasted about 30 mins trick-or-treating, then they wanted to head home to hand out candy. What was the weather like where you live? And how many pieces of candy do people give out where you trick-or-treat? Here, it’s a tie between “choose two pieces” and “grab a handful.” #blairebenandsloane #halloween #halloween2019 #happilytrista
February 5, 2017

must have baby items for your 2nd baby


Registering for baby number two has been wayyyy less stressful than registering for our first baby.

With our first, I was so worried I would miss something big or I would register for something that would stop working a month in. I read blogs, scoured reviews, googled everything. Registered for things. Got them. Returned them because I suddenly found a bad review about it and I was taking no chances. 

But with baby number 2, you know probably already have the majority of what you NEED, as far as bigger pieces.

There were a few things we had borrowed when Blaire was a baby, so we have to replace those. Also, since we are having a boy, we’ve had to stock a tiny closet full of tiny new clothes. This time around, I spent some time searching for the things I didn’t quite love from our first time around and during my time on Google, I came across Gugu Guru and just had to try it out. What is Gugu Guru? It’s a personalized baby registry site. What’s that mean? You create your account, answer a few questions and receive a customized registry created just for you. Easy peasy.  

Registry for Baby 2

Dockatot Deluxe | Solly Baby Wrap | Milestone Baby Cards | Ollie Swaddle | Binxy Baby | Boobie Bars | Mamaroo | Covered Goods | Dish Soap | Laundry Detergent

This is the majority of my customized registry and I love it! There’s something about a nursery full of baby items that makes me feel like I’m more than ready to have this little guy here with us. Then I think about the transition from one kid to two and decide he can just hang out in there awhile longer. 

Dockatot Deluxe: I had never heard of the Dockatot when Blaire was a baby. If I had, I would have sold anything to buy it with the hopes my baby would FINALLY sleep through the night. Well she finally did. At 9-months-old. and it. was. rough. I also coslept with Blaire and so I’m excited to use this in the bed to let baby safely cosleep. 

Solly Baby Wrap: The wrap I had the first time around never worked out right. I got it on major clearance and I think it was too small for me. But, it was the only size they had left so I tried to make it work. The Solly Wrap is one-size fits all AND it comes in lots of super cute patterns/prints. Baby wearing for the win!

Milestone Baby Cards: Monica at Gugu Guru said she always recommends these to second-time (or third-time or fourth-time) moms because it helps you remember to document all of those milestones you documented for baby number one. Challenge accepted. 

Ollie Swaddle: I have heard amazing things about this swaddle. We didn’t necessarily have one we loved for Blaire. So I’m really excited to try this for baby boy.

Binxy Baby: I have been promised this will make shopping with two kids a little easier. You can use it from birth up until baby is strong enough to sit up unassisted. So I see myself utilizing it during lots of Target trips throughout my maternity leave.

Boobie Bars: I can’t tell you how much Fenugreek and Oatmeal I consumed trying to keep my supply up with Blaire. I am hoping these Boobie Bars will taste better AND the best part? You only need to eat one to get your full day’s of milk-boosting herbs. No more taking 8 Fenugreek pills a day. Score!

Mamaroo: Blaire loved her swing as a baby, so I am hoping the Mamaroo will be a less bulky, quieter option for this baby. With the “car ride” setting, I’m hoping to eliminate the random car rides we had to take when nothing else would make her fall asleep.

Covered Goods: I never had a nursing cover that worked well for me with Blaire, so I am super excited about this one. The scarf-like design makes sure it doesn’t fall off your shoulder (like the one I had always did!) and I love that it doubles as a car seat cover, high chair cover, and shopping cart cover. Plus, it’s cute. It was important to me to use Covered Goods because they are actually the originator of this design. So you might see lots of other options out there… but Covered Goods did it first! 

Dish Soap & Laundry Detergent: These are great to stock up on now that you’ll have double the tiny things to wash!

One of the best parts about Gugu Guru is that you can add any items you find online to your registry, including amazon items. There were a few other well-loved items we need to stock up on: burp cloths, bibs, etc. So it was super easy to add those to our registry. 

Like I said before, the one last thing we need for our registry is a double stroller. I cannot decide on one! So if there’s one you love, PLEASE let me know in the Comments below. And let me know what else was a must-have for baby number two! We have 7 weeks (or so!) left to get things together. xo

  • Reply
    Tabitha Shakespeare
    February 8, 2017 at 9:41 pm

    YES to all of these! You are right on track mama! Congrats on baby #2!

    Much love!

  • Reply
    February 8, 2017 at 11:45 pm

    I registered for both the Binxy baby and the solly wrap! I haven’t had a chance to use the Binxy yet because she is still teeny (month old) but I am loving the solly so much better than a bjorn.
    Congrats on #2!
    xo, Nicole

  • Reply
    Erika Ortega
    February 9, 2017 at 9:51 am

    All great much needed picks. Especially the mamaRoo, that was a life saver at my home and I recommend it so much!

  • Reply
    Jessica Lynnj
    February 9, 2017 at 10:20 pm

    Great list! We have #3 coming soon, and this reminds me that I still need to make an actual registry list (#thirdbabyproblems). I’ve been intrigued by the Ollie—it’s popped up a lot in the last several months; and I need to check out the dockatot!

  • Reply
    February 10, 2017 at 7:41 pm

    Good list! There are so many new things out there :)

  • Reply
    Rachel Montano
    February 10, 2017 at 11:39 pm

    That is so neat! I love what you have on your registry. I have heard such good things about the swaddle!

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  • How many kids do you have? Which transition was the hardest? It may not be the traditional answer, but for me, becoming a mama to one was the hardest. I had NO CLUE what I was in for.
The mom guilt.
How long it would take to leave the house.
The sleepless nights.
Losing myself in motherhood — feeling like I had to be with Blaire 24/7.
Adding Ben and now Sloane to our crew has been so much easier for me. It’s like they just fall in line with the crazy. 🤪 And I think being so much more confident in myself as a mom doesn’t hurt either. 💁🏼‍♀️ #motherhoodishard
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  • Prepping for our third baby has been pretty easy so far. I guess when you have an older sister and brother, plus a mama who likes to hold on to everything from her babies, there isn’t a ton of shopping to do. The kids are having fun picking out little gifts to give baby sister in the hospital (something Blaire still talks about from when Ben was born), little toys here and there, PJs, and this @babyeinstein 4-in-1 Kickin Tunes Music & Language Discovery Gym at @target. I wasn’t joking when I said they wanted to test it out! #babyeinstein #ignitecuriosity #socialspotters #blaireandben #happilytrista
  • #ad I can’t believe this girl is heading off to kindergarten! With afternoon pre-k last year, we were lucky to not have to worry about the morning rush. So this year, our go-to is a waffle and a chocolate milk for the ride to school. Horizon® Shelf Stable Chocolate Milk is our favorite since we can easily grab it and go! Spoiler alert: she takes one in her lunch, too. Blaire is so excited, but little brother and I are sad to see her spend so much time away from us. But I am excited to be able to walk her to school and avoid the CRAZY drop-off and pick-up lines while the weather’s still nice, anyways. 
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  • Well we don’t have a Nordstrom near us, but we do have an Aldi. Most of their summer items are on clearance and we scored this sweet pool for $7. Winner, winner. 🦄☀️ #blaireandben
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  • This summer hasn’t really felt like summer yet. 🤨 So when we have an 85° day we make the most out of it with a trip to the pool! How’d you spend your Sunday Funday? #blaireandben
  • another day, another doctors appointment for someone in our crew. today it’s Ben. he was up overnight saying his ear hurt — a double ear infection for him. luckily the kid loves taking medicine and hasn’t let his ears get him down! as long as he’s up moving around they’re fine, but the second he lays down... 😭😭😭. hoping our poor buddy is feeling better tomorrow. do you feel like you need a frequent flier card for your pediatrician? just me? okay. #blaireandben #itsfinewerefine
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  • It is definitely bittersweet to leave the house where we brought both of these babies home. But we are excited for our next chapter as a family of five! #rainbowbaby #blaireandben
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  • Last night was our first night in the new house. 👏🏻 We still have lots of stuff to bring from the old house and then lots of cleaning over there before the final walk through and closing next Monday. Then we can focus on getting this house unpacked and organized. But first, I would like a nap. 😴 #blaireandben #happilytristahome
  • The snow that never ends. 🙄🥶 Walked out into the snow this afternoon and one kid loved it, the other not so much. “Wowwww! It’s like a wizard out here.” —Blaire 😂
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